Bevin Tomlin is the Online Support Group Coordinator and Moderator for Pregnancy After Loss Support. She is a Jesus lover, wife, mother, daughter, sister, friend, community volunteer and advocate for Group B Strep awareness. She is a proud mommy of two daughters and her rainbow baby boy born in September 2014. Bevin lives in Birmingham, AL with her family and works full-time as a marketing professional. Bevin is excited about joining PALS as one of the PALS private group moderators where she can serve other bereaved mothers on the journey of pregnancy after loss. Bevin blogs (sporadically) at The Tomlin Family about her fears, anxieties and celebrations about her rainbow baby, as well as all the fun she has with her family.
Online Bereavement Doulas
Kathleen Garcia is Certified Doula & Certified Baby-wearing Educator in the NYC area. She is a natural parenting educator, wife, & mother who resides in Staten Island, NY. She is a proud mommy of 5 children and this past October she gave birth to #5 her second “Rainbow Baby”. As certified doula she decided to specialize in bereavement after the losses of her 2 angel babies. With her clients Kathleen focuses 100% on supporting a woman and her family during any trimester and with any outcome. This also includes the final moments a mother has with her baby making lasting memories. Kathleen is excited about joining PALS as a PALS private group moderator where she can continue her dedication to serving other bereaved mothers on the journey of pregnancy after loss.
Ashley Boren is a wife and mother to six kids–five boys and one girl, four angels. Her first loss she went about alone. She was in shock–thought it would “never happen to her.”It took a long time to come to terms. After months of trying again she had my 4th son and first rainbow. She was scared after a hard pregnancy. They wanted more children and didn’t prevent anymore after he was born. They found out Ashley was pregnant when their rainbow was three months old, and at the worst possible time–being rushed to the ER, dying in pain. Ashley’s tube had ruptured due to an ectopic pregnancy, and she was dying from internal bleeding. At that moment, Ashley realized she was not immune and things DO happen. Not long after, they suffered a stillbirth of my first known daughter. Another try ended in another. When they had their stillbirth, they finally started looking for support and help. Ashley and her husband found still birthday, where they found help, support, love, and understanding. Ashley finally knew she was NOT alone. After working as a mentor of miscarriage, stillbirth and early infant loss through Miscarriage Matters Inc. Ashley realized she wanted to do more. She signed up, fell in love, dove into everything, training as a bereavement doula. Ashley wanted to help and let others know they are NOT alone. She wants to walk the path side-by-side with other families.–the same path she walked alone, until she found stillbirthday. On their final try, Ashley and her husband successfully got pregnant with twins. They were a hard, emotionally and physically, pregnancy, but they both are healthy.
Online Support Group Moderators
Jennifer Taylor is a busy single mom of four, living in the Central Valley of California. Pregnancy has been a major focal point in her life. In 1997 she met her first love, her son, Jonah. His brother Logan followed in 2004. After that, she combined her passion for pregnancy and giving, and became a surrogate mother. In 2007 she delivered triplets and in 2008 a little girl for two different families. In early 2010 she was surprised to find she was pregnant with her own child! Everything was picture perfect with Colton’s pregnancy until she realized she no longer felt his movements or his presence, just six short weeks before his due date. Colton was still born at 34 weeks with no explanation or cause found. “It just happens”. Scared to have her own again, yet not willing to live in fear, Jennifer completed another surrogacy, delivering a little boy in 2012 for an international couple. She and her partner struggled silently and separately, still, with their loss and almost two years after losing Colton they separated. Shortly after, she found out she was pregnant with her rainbow. In June 2013 their daughter, Delaney, arrived safe and happy. She and Dad are learning a new relationship, as co-parents, and healing themselves with the love and joy of their little girl! Jennifer is happy to share her vast experiences and knowledge in the PALs community and through her blog losingbabycolton.blogpot.com.
Tara Bennett Kilian is the Social Media Coordinator and Editor for Pregnancy After Loss Support. She lives in Columbus, Ohio with her partner and three living children. She is a former English teacher turned SAHM, a writer, and a businesswoman. After her children started school, Tara combined her passion for education, her love for children, and her desire to work from home into a successful childcare business. Due to complications from her two previous pregnancies and a diagnosis of secondary infertility, she was surprised to learn she was pregnant again in January of 2014, almost a decade after her previous pregnancies. Her shock turned to grief and disbelief when she miscarried. Devastated by the loss and hurt by thoughtless comments she received from those who couldn’t empathize, Tara reached out to other mothers who had experienced loss. Less than two months later, Tara was pregnant again. Feeling a multitude of emotions ranging from anxiety to happiness to fear, Tara found solace in the online community, especially at PALS, where she could share her experiences and fears with other moms on a similar journey. Tara is now the proud mother of a rainbow. Jesse was born in November of 2014 and is being spoiled by his older siblings, Cole and Lara. As someone who loves helping and supporting loved ones through difficult times, Tara is excited to help other mothers through the emotional journey of pregnancy after loss, and she thinks it’s a great way to honor the memory of the baby she lost. Tara also writes (sporadically) her blog This Old Lady Had a Baby.
LaToya Cooper is a 35-year-old wife to Melvin and step-mother to Kendal. She resides in Birmingham, Alabama where she works full-time as a domestic violence advocate. LaToya’s journey to motherhood took an unexpected detour right out the gate. After being told she would never be able to conceive without the help of IVF, she became pregnant with her daughter Hope–no IVF or other medication, just her faith that all things are possible. Five months (22 weeks) into her pregnancy, though, her water broke and two days later her beautiful daughter was born and passed away soon after being delivered. Since losing Hope, LaToya has started educating herself on pregnancy after a loss and being a high risk patient. She advocates to people who have never experienced a loss how to react and console parents who have experienced a baby loss. LaToya and her husband are currently trying to conceive their rainbow baby, and they can’t wait for the day he or she arrives.
Jacquie Kydd is a southern California native who is a wife, mother, sister, and daughter. She is a member of her local Baptist church and a homemaker for her family. She has one stepdaughter, and in 2010 she had a “textbook” pregnancy and delivered a healthy baby boy. In early 2013 Jacquie was thrilled to find out she was expecting her second baby. At 25 weeks gestation everything changed when her baby girl was diagnosed with trisomy 13 and alobar holoprosencephaly, a rare brain malformation that has a very low to zero survival rate. Her daughter passed away shortly after birth on June 25, 2013. A few months after her daughter went to heaven, Jacquie and her husband decided to try for their rainbow baby. In March of 2014 she was very excited, scared, nervous, and many other emotions when she found out she was expecting her rainbow baby. After a not-so-easy pregnancy, due to preterm labor, doctors were able to stop labor with medication, and she went on to deliver a healthy and alive baby boy in November of 2014. Through the journey of her daughter’s passing and the many emotions of a subsequent pregnancy, she learned that many women could not empathize with her and she sought support. She found a lot of help from groups such as, Blessings While Broken, My Child Did Exist, Still Standing Magazine and Pregnancy After Loss Support group. She is now a pregnancy and infant loss awareness advocate and wants to help as many women as she can who have had to face the devastating reality of pregnancy and infant loss and give hope and encouragement for those that are planning to or are pregnant after a loss.