Loni H.E.

About Loni H.E.

Loni H.E. currently lives in Denver Colorado with her husband Matthew and their beautiful son Meyer. Losing her full term daughter Aisley in August 2012 during labor was the most painful tragedy she has ever experienced. Her love for Aisley has only grown since she passed away and she makes time to honor her often. Despite Loni’s grief, her dream of having a family never faded and after nine months she felt frightened but ready to try to conceive Aisley’s little brother or sister. Her second pregnancy was one of the most challenging, frightening and empowering experiences of her life. All the risk was worth it as she welcomed her beloved son, Meyer, into the world on January 8th 2014 (six days before her birthday). You can read about Loni’s journey at her blog, A Girl Named Kevin and on her Facebook page.

Your Moment

I write to support other women who are experiencing pregnancy after loss as someone who has been through it herself. I too carried my second child in the space his sister died. I’ve shared your worries and anxieties. I too wasn’t sure I had the courage to get through it. I write to you from [...]

By | 2016-10-13T17:20:01+00:00 August 31st, 2014|3rd Trimester, Birth|0 Comments

Somewhere in the Middle

I find myself torn between two worlds, two communities. I belong to both yet find it incredibly difficult to exist authentically in each. One is the loss world and the other is everyone else. I teeter between these worlds because my daughter died and my son lived. In the loss community I can say my [...]

By | 2016-10-13T17:20:24+00:00 August 3rd, 2014|The First Year|0 Comments

Working Through Your Fear

My daughter Aisley Evelyn died the same day she was born on August 5th, 2012. She was a healthy, full term baby girl yet she passed away during labor. She was my first-born. Her passing left a scar on my heart as deep as the sea, maybe even deeper. Losing her has transformed me as [...]

By | 2016-10-13T17:20:59+00:00 July 6th, 2014|Emotional Health, Pregnancy|0 Comments